Meeting Joss Whedon at the #HeForShe LA Media Summit

This last weekend I not only had the honor of listening to one of my biggest influences talk about gender equality, but also had the opportunity to discuss it with him as well. Joss Whedon was a huge inspiration for me to be more bold about the feminist themes in my work. If you were to look back to my earlier work until now, you can actually see that message become more overt. Largely due to my introduction to the Whedonverse, I finally came to that realization it was important for me as a male creator in a male dominated world, to do so.

Denis Caron talks feminism with Joss Whedon.

Denis Caron talks feminism with Joss Whedon.

I grew up in a house hold where I had a strong female role model, and a father, who not only saw his wife as an equal, but listened and valued her counsel more than anyone else. In my mind, I never questioned that men and women were equal. I saw our togetherness as a 1 to 1 partnership designed to build each other up equally, not some other disproportionate ratio made to use and disadvantage our counterparts. It was only when I got older and began to see and truly hear what women were saying about their struggles and inequality.

Joss Whedon being honored for his work as a proactive feminist in Hollywood. #HeForShe

Joss Whedon being honored for his work as a proactive feminist in Hollywood. #HeForShe

Patricia Arquette, Joss Whedon and other at Un Women USNC LA Chapter Panel.

Patricia Arquette, Joss Whedon and other at Un Women USNC LA Chapter Panel.

My conclusion that I identify as a feminist came from my understanding that men, particularly privileged straight white males, need to be part of the solution not the problem. The word "feminist" isn't this scary beast that some men fear means women must have all the power; it not that at all. It's equality. Equal and fair opportunities for both sexes (and gender identities) that benefit everyone. Film, animation, comics, art, business, everything in our society has a subtle way of undermining women not only in our casual behaviors but even more so in our reinforced portrayals of women in our work. I’ve since dedicated a portion of what create to empowering women, by creating characters or pieces that show non-sexualized* strong women in ways that I, other men and women themselves should see women. Not our better halves, not a sexy trophies or un-realistic fantasized version of what no human can be, but our equals. We need to stop writing stories centered around male characters who win over women with their prowess, stop drawing women bent over in unnatural positions with their body parts barely holding themselves in their clothes, and start exploring a broader pool of interesting and valuable stories that just get pushed aside because “they wont sell.” It’s not that they won’t, they simply don’t because we don’t invest our money, our intellect and talent into creating more and more of this content with genuine interest and intent.

Denis Caron meeting Joss Whedon for the first time. #HeForShe

Denis Caron meeting Joss Whedon for the first time. #HeForShe

Denis Caron taking a silly selfie with Joss Whedon.

Denis Caron taking a silly selfie with Joss Whedon.

I am thankful for every opportunity that I have been given on this crazy ride I’ve been on creating, and hope that what I do empowers everyone. Hopefully one day message like this wont be a thing, that we can finally stop debating race, gender and every other different qualities that make us human… but until we get there, be kind, speak up for those who are disadvantaged and hopefully we can be the generation that stops spreading hate.

If you’re at all interested in what this event I went to was about, please check out this link: http://www.heforshe.org #HeForShe

*I do have sexualized content with women, but I take time to consider the female perspective when doing so. If I touch on these topics I try my best to make these genuine explorations of a characters sexuality, or a relatable scenario I realized women experience, just like men.

Poetry Writing

"Like, what's with these recent poetry posts out of no where, Denis? I thought you drew funny things! I don't see jokes in these poems!" I know right? I'm sure these recent posts have seemed completely out of character for me. Especially when you consider I haven't explicitly expressed any interest in any sort of poetry writing in the past 5 or so years I've been making comics. Or have I?

por·tend \por-TEND\verbTo indicate (events, misfortunes, etc.) as in future; to foreshadow; to bode.

por·tend \por-TEND\

verb

To indicate (events, misfortunes, etc.) as in future; to foreshadow; to bode.

I certainly have a love for words, not only in learning new ones, but figuring out how to use them in creative or even humorous ways. Words of interest, for example, was a bit of an exploration in this idea for me. I wanted to expand my vocabulary but at the same time, hopefully, be able to expand other people's as well. You don't know how much it's made my day when people have come up to me at shows and told me they've started using a word from the comic in their daily language and/or jokes! But, before I go on some nonsense tangent about humorous verbal lols, let's stay on point and talk about writing, shall we?

Before any of this all started I used to write, not only poems, but lyrics to songs that I would sing along to while I played piano or guitar. In high school, my dream was to become a professional musician who was able to travel around the country to be able share music anywhere I could. This was before social media was as big as it now, by the way. I think back then the best site available to me for promotion was Myspace... you know, that site where the only thing anyone cared about was who showed up in their "top 5" on their profiles. Anyway, I made it a practice to write poetry every night before bed or even while I was supposed to be learning how to cram numbers together in Science class (I obviously learned quite a bit about how to Math those days). Every so often, the poems that didn't sound like verbal fecal matter became songs and chicken scribbles that didn't make the cut were thrown into a poem pile where lesser poems just went to die. 

Anyway, when I started drawing L.A.W.L.S. it was something that began to consume my life completely. So much so, that I had to make a creative decision. Which thing was most important to me and which seemed to be the most feasible of jobs? At the time, the answer was comics. I needed to focus on one creative project, not 100... because I feared that I would never perfect how to draw comics if I was splitting my attentions between both things. Sound enough logic, but the only fault in it was that I was beginning to let a creative part of myself begin to die. I certainly enjoy making people laugh, but I wasn't writing things that moved me anymore. As I've more recently come this realization, I've come to the conclusion that I should be creating things that not only inspire other people, but myself as well.